The worst harm to people is never to put those cruel words, but to nibble away a little bit, grow up with us, become our habit, and use a gentle look to pull them away after sleeping in our lives, even with belts and flesh, to take away a piece.
In fact, I only talk about distant memories with people who want to be close to me. If you like someone, you want to take a young picture of him and see how he was in a hurry that year he missed.
Sometimes before you finish speaking, you have to stop abruptly in the sound of "beep". The feeling of being ignored and not respected will be more cruel and real than the other person's face-to-face rejection of you.