To friends who are drifting away in life.
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01.
A few days ago, I ran into an old friend Brain at a classmate's wedding.
speaking, we haven't been in touch since he went abroad. So there were some surprises and some bewilderment in this reunion. After exchanging pleasantries and reporting on their recent situation, they fell into an awkward silence again.
I have no way of knowing what he is doing and what he cares about, nor does he know what I am busy with.
the only things we can talk about are those old things.
"do you remember that time?
"Ah, it's been such a long time."
in just two years, we have become familiar strangers to each other.
I was so filled with emotion that I seemed to lose it for several years.
02.
Open Wechat and search for former friends. It takes a long time to drag the scroll bar to find them.
Click on the dialog box, showing "Happy New year!" "the time is January 1, 2016.
while the previous one was New Year's Day the year before, they are like robots broadcasting regularly.
after we parted at the intersection at a certain point in time, we embarked on different journeys and never intersected again.
remember the deskmate who didn't let you cross the "38th parallel" in primary school?
what about the buddies who ate popsicles on their bikes in high school?
the best friend in high school, the top bunk in college, the first colleague, the first lover.
where are they now? They entered their parents' unit in their hometown, they searched for the meaning of life in Beishangguang, they emigrated and settled on the other side of the ocean, they were on the Internet, they were on their mobile phones, they were in all kinds of APP.
but they are no longer in your heart.
you can't even remember the scene of the last parting, because you didn't know it at the time, and maybe it was goodbye.
so you try to capture them now.
the result can only be the same as I am embarrassed to face Brain now- all we have left is the past to remember.
03.
friend. We didn't do anything wrong, we just never stopped.
time pushes us forward and scatters us. It is a regrettable and helpless thing to miss each other's lives.
every section of the road, you will meet like-minded people, whether they are spiritual thoughts or hobbies. We resonate with them. When the journey is over, the bond that sustains the friendship dies. We waved to each other, said goodbye to the scenery, and then kept some memories, each packed on the road, this is a friend.
the world is so big that people come and go every day. It is very lucky to find a friendship that has lasted for a long time.
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Brain happened to talk about another mutual friend at the dinner table.
"he passed away last year. There was a car accident while cycling along the Sichuan-Tibet line. "
surprise leaves me with more regrets. He once said that he would come to me to catch up with the past, but unexpectedly, this has become an agreement that can never be realized. I made an appointment with some friends that evening. They coaxed me to ask if they wanted to borrow money from them, or else why they had a party all of a sudden. I smiled and said,
"I just want to see you guys. "
05.
We always say to ourselves
: there will be plenty of time in the future. Let's start with a few years, while you're young.
: I'm too tired from work just now. Let's make an appointment another time.
: find your buddies and have a good drink to make up for it when you are free.
: when the economic conditions are better, ask your best friend to go abroad for a trip.
We had a lot of opportunities to get each other back, but when we were tired in the face of the world. I missed it.
it's a pity that "friends" are not destined to stay with us for a lifetime, so at least try your best on every journey and leave good memories.
so that when they are drifting away from each other, they can also stand on different tracks and look at your profile.
smile and scold you idiot for running so slowly.