Please give Cupid a reason to shoot you.

there is an old saying in China, very vulgar, but very reasonable, called: fish looking for fish, shrimp looking for shrimp, turtles looking for bastards. This sentence is too unsuitable for us Douban, which is so fresh in literature and art, and it is not suitable to describe the existence of our women so fragrant and elegant, it is uncomfortable to look at it. But I just stubbornly feel that life is ruthless, and only from some particularly approachable and direct rough words can we see the muscles and bones of life. So you're a fish? Or shrimp? Or Miss Tortoise, who wears perfume and carries a famous bag, can't hide from the son of a bitch?

[get hurt more than twice, please pay attention to the rule] maybe all the women who have gone through some years have been calm: who was not hurt by love when he was young? This guy is a stab, a knife, a poison that harms people with hemiplegia; you are the wind, he is not necessarily sand. However, if you can't escape sadness, stabbing, and being stabbed by scum, shouldn't you reflect on whether your IQ is good or not? Don't always complain about your bad luck. Michelle Reis said that we can't decide what man we meet, but we can decide who to fall in love with and who to leave. The man you fall in love with, either cold, ruthless, or disorderly, you adjust your body and mind again and again, but have you ever wondered why it is always you. I always believe in the saying: who you are, you will fall in love with; who you are, you will attract. You may ask, I am infatuated hard to change, forgive tolerance again and again, why he who I love is ruthless and cold, abandoning me and humiliating me again and again, disrespecting my efforts and even my personality? Please think deeply. 

Are there any similarities in the way you treat your relationship? Do your feelings have dignity? Do you abide by the commandment that feelings are equal? Both of you are trampling on your feelings and hearts, and you are both selfish and laissez-faire in consuming your feelings without control, but in different ways, he humiliates you, you also humiliate you. Don't blame yourself for the embarrassment of persuading the prodigal son to return when you fall in love with him as soon as you say and go at the ends of the earth; if you fall in love with his sweet talk and tenderness in your heart, don't blame him for his skill after empathy; don't be afraid of his stubbornly conceited grandeur if you value his daily gold-sucking and scolding Fang Kui's talent; don't be tired of his sloppiness that he can't stand out when you fall in love with his summoned, trivial and sticky obedience. It's up to you to choose. Choice = high-profile enjoyment + low-key swallowing, no one can escape. If you attach too much importance to a certain longboard, you are bound to ignore a certain shortboard; if you are entangled in a longboard every time, you have to put up with a damned shortboard every time; if you are not greedy and can accept the type of average length, you can choose to be down-to-earth but calm; if you are not reconciled, you want to wait for a godsend with only a longboard without a shortboard, hehe I am sorry, you wait slowly. PS: may change her mind by looking in the mirror.

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[both priceless treasures and lovers depend on whether you deserve it] Li Bihua once accurately described a woman's dream: a lifelong desire to be collected, properly placed, carefully preserved, to spare me suffering, to avoid shock, to avoid wandering around, so that I have no branches to rely on. Perhaps in modern society, independent women, such as strong girls, disdain to admit such a cowardly dream. But if you think about it in your belly, you still don't have to reject some kind of natural need. Today's women may no longer need material support, but the pleasure brought by spiritual dependence and the comfort brought by emotional love is probably something that no human being will hate. Therefore, if you want to find a lover, it is the best wish that should be respected. But the problem is that the quality of a lover, the level of a lover's affection, and how long a lover can walk all depend on one thing, that is, you have your own. More. good. 

Many girls put forward the matter of "stay away from Korean TV dramas". I think it's 70% reasonable. Indeed, some encounters in South Korean TV dramas are so ethereal that two people with completely different family backgrounds, knowledge, and lifestyle can love each other to death. If you think about it carefully, this kind of love is groundless, and the attraction between them. I prefer to call it "hormonal impulse". In other words, South Korean TV dramas exaggerate the "love between men and women" part of love, only because this part is the most precious, the most short-lived, the most unforgettable, and the most heart-stirring. If the heroine is more beautiful, I believe this love can go for a few more kilometers, but if the heroine continues to be unremarkable, untidy, and even fierce and crazy, I doubt that the prince and princess will slap each other in the face soon. Yes, there is a truth, although ruthless, you can not avoid it, that is: men will always fall in love with you because of your advantages and charm; always love you because your advantages and charm have not vanished and become more and more. More importantly: it is because of your good that they can tolerate your bad. It's like the saying: if he hasn't experienced the surprise after your makeup, how can he fall in love with your ordinary makeup? You know, the premise of tolerance is that it is worth tolerating. If some crazy ghost in love claims that he loves you for being unreasonable, narrow-minded, vulgar, and vicious, then either you are rarely beautiful, or you are young but well-off, or you are talented and full of stars or listen to me, stay away from this man and send him to the stable hospital to find Dr. Hao, he must not be what you want. This truth is not difficult to understand, but few people think it through. You help your friend because he is loyal to you, or you appreciate and cherish him; you are filial to your parents and obedient because of your natural flesh and blood and acquired feelings. So both emotion and behavior have causes and consequences, which is very realistic. There is a very stupid saying: you are so good-looking that your parents come back to boil more poached eggs for you. What about your lover? People's egoistic nature can not be ignored, the attraction of hormones is, even more, temporary, so long-term love and life must come from long-lasting appreciation and day-to-day, soul-to-heart watering. You, what is worth having a lover in the vast crowd, firmly locked?

[if you want to meet a high mountain, don't be a mound] there is a kind of pleasure, which is called resonance. There is a pleasure called being inspired. In my opinion, these two kinds of spiritual feeling acceptance are the cornerstone of two people who are attracted to each other and stay with each other for a long time. If you want to meet him-full of knowledge, export it into a chapter, then ask him to say just the first part, can you take up the second part? If you want to meet him-young talent, corporate executives, then he has encountered problems in business, can you give a useful comfort, or have plain wisdom? If you want to meet for the first time and fall in love at first sight, can your skin, hair, and figure be unforgettable? If you want to gain the appreciation of men with meaning, can you logically be meticulous, justify yourself, and express your opinions independently, instead of weak feelings? In time, the only thing that can tie two people up is the spirit of you and me. As a master, it is neck and neck. He enters you, he retreats you, he has his complacency, you have your good skills, if one day, you two find that without each other, life does not know its taste, thinking is no fun, then congratulations, you have successfully captured each other. Many girls lack a sense of security in love. What is a sense of security? Not daily phone calls and text messages, full of each other's time, you can hold each other's whereabouts. Sense of security is that kind of self-confidence: when he is high, when he is down when he is confused when he is in pain, he will immediately ask for your care, ask for your bag, and enjoy your favor. No one else can replace your wisdom, your smile, and your comfort, so no matter how big the world is, he just wants to stay by your side or take you on the road. If your smile is so sweet that you can dispel all his worries, what if you occasionally commit princess illness? If you are so talented that he can listen ecstatically with a small stool, what if your thighs are not straight and fat? If your ability is so strong that it is easy to attract money in the workplace, what if the shopkeeper does not do housework? If you are strong enough to become his nemesis, become his queen, can hit his heart, beautiful enough to make him afraid of you to run every day. And like Camilla with Prince Charles, making him laugh and jumping makes him angry and depressed, and do you think foolishly every day about how to get him to call, how to get him to reply quickly, how to get him to give you a good face? Use the time spent in love to worry and anxiety, to maintain, read, make friends, to make yourself shine, to enjoy your life, and to accumulate materials for you and him in the future that you can talk about for the rest of your life. If you see a dazzling man, you always have a crush on an ordinary woman around you. Then please pay attention to her. Because she must be a floor-sweeping monk who does not show mountains or dew but is highly skilled in martial arts. Experts never disdain to fight with rookies. It's the same with love.