Friends who live in moments.

1.

there are all kinds of people living in my mobile phone.

because of work acquaintances, friends who attend classes together at school, friends introduced by friends, relatives large and small at home, everyone exists in each other's Wechat address book in the form of nicknames, and names that usually don't appear in the dialogue bar can be active in comments and likes in moments.

every photo, every status, the first few people who like it, in a trance, they will mistakenly think that there is a strong friendship between the two people. Some people click to open the chat dialog box, if not a blank, lying only a few ceremonial greetings, "Happy New year", "Happy International Labour Day", "Happy International Children's Day" and "Happy Mother's Day". The communication ended abruptly with "Thank you", "have fun" and "you too".

2.

I went to a press conference some time ago and met a girl I knew. In fact, we have met at many activities, have their own contact information, but also have common friends, can also chat together. 

Girls are cheerful and talkative, and I don't like to put on airs. When we chatted, we jokingly said, how come we haven't had a chance to have tea alone for so long?

at the end of the show, the girl gave me a gesture to make a phone call and told me that she would make an appointment for tea sometime. On his way home, Wechat received a smiling face. In the next few days, the girl's circle of friends was often refreshed, and I thought it was time to take the initiative.

when I asked a girl out for the first time, I nervously pondered the wording for a long time until the reply was that she was not in Vancouver recently, so I would like to make another appointment later. When she took the initiative to send a text message to ask me how I was doing, just in time for the busiest time at the end of the term, the appointment plan fell through again. Come and go, in several Wechat who "talk about it next time" and "make another appointment", the enthusiasm of both of them is worn away, and then there is no more.

3.

friends in moments, do you put down your phones and

you will all disappear?

 these people live in your circle of friends like flames of fire, giving you the illusion of warmth for a moment. But if you block your moments and never click on the dialog box again, this person can easily disappear into your life as if he had never appeared.

in the past, some people criticized me and asked me why every time I went to a new place, people I knew before were no longer in touch with each other. In retrospect, this was indeed the case.

I am not good at communicating with people, nor do I like to contact actively. I firmly believe that all good relationships are built on the premise that both parties feel happy. The astonishment that a friend suddenly disappears will only last for a moment. Respectively is the inevitable outcome of every relationship, loneliness is the normal state of life. You don't need to give too much expectation and hope in a relationship, unless you can say goodbye and be prepared.

4.

I am to all feelings, to some extent, similar to what Beaufort is to love.

in Lettres à Nelson Algren), she wrote, "I long to see you, but please remember that I will not ask to see you." It's not because of pride, you don't know that I have no pride in front of you, but because it's only when you want to see me that it makes sense for us to meet. "

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friends come and go, and some people stop for even an afternoon. Perhaps everyone lives cautiously, fearing that their enthusiasm will be disappointed and torched. Maybe everyone knows that people always want to leave alone, and their whole life is just going back and forth over and over again in the process of gain and loss.

now, many people's relationships are described as "played for a while before". Like falling in love, that's your ex-friend, that's your ex-friend, you've been talking for a year, half a year, or even less.

the busier you are, the lonelier you are.