Don't stare at others, look at yourself.
Don't stare at others, look at yourself, what others have is other people's, only you have, that is your own. Instead of having time to envy others as a rich second generation, think about how to live your own life. Instead of thinking that the success of others is accidental, try to see if it is really an accidental success.
the leader's children come for an internship, and the freshmen are not interested in it within a few days, arriving late and leaving early with the leader all day long. An intern quit! Complaining, "Why he can be late and leave early, but I can't?" It's not fair. " No one spoke to him for several days, and he showed great indignation at lunch. The head of their department stood up and said, "you go to your father's company for an internship, or you can come with your father and go together." It's a pity you didn't intern in your father's company. " There is an old saying in Beijing, "Don't look at it, how have you changed?" It is a terrible word, which probably means that you have no self-knowledge and compare with the things you can't achieve. In this environment where everyone compares everything, it is easy to make such comparisons. When I was an intern, we came together, and there were several people, and there were two girls who were better than us in terms of clothes, food, and food.
There was a girl who had been learning from them, and the eldest sister who published it later advised her, "you use what others use." He didn't have enough money, so he opened his mouth and spent tens of thousands of dollars at home. Your parents save money for a year, but they can't save enough money for a bag. Don't learn this, save some money and marry a good family. " We thought we were on the same starting line as others, but it wasn't.
We think life is a game, but unfortunately, it is not. We think why it is fair, but it is not. Changing what you can change, accepting what you can't, and learning to distinguish between the two is the wisdom we have to learn all our lives. Always have a standard in your mind, people chat in the QQ group, others have free work, they are busy for 3 hours a day and earn tens of thousands of dollars a month. People quit school and quit to travel, and they have monthly magazine contributions to eat and drink. When other people speculate in the stock market, their parents sponsor tens of thousands of dollars to lose money and then give them. You may not have what others have. if you manage what you have, if you have what others have, you can learn from others.
Don't stare at others, look at yourself, what others have is others', only you have, that is your own. Instead of having time to envy others as a rich second generation, think about how to live your own life. Instead of thinking that the success of others is accidental, try to see if it is an accidental success. Instead of suppressing yourself to dawdle along, try to see if you can live the life you want. Forget who said: be sure to take the first step and don't standstill.
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many years ago, a senior told me that when you can't see the direction, bow your head and do things. If you stop and wait for you to find the direction, you will find that you can no longer keep up with it, and you have to find a new direction. If you always complain about the unfairness that you can't change, you can't get over it. Compare with those things that are beyond your ability, then you can only have a bigger and bigger gap with others and get yourself into trouble more and more. Warcraft said, "if the comparison can bring motivation to forge ahead, that's good." But most of the time, it brings only financial overdrafts, strong imbalances, and powerless complaints, and is likely to drag life into the abyss. Everyone's environment, opportunities, and abilities are different, and they can't be compared with each other. " The environment will not be fair because of your complaints. if we can't change society for the time being, at least each of us can start by changing ourselves.